Sebastian has a very needy boy of late
I dont know if it's a bad habit from too much time with my parents who are very keen to cuddle if he looks even slightly grumpy, but the last two days he's been unhappy unless he is cuddled, and even sometimes when he is. Very exhausting when you have another boy who needs you too. Im grateful that Connor can play on his mat happily, provided that I am talking to him, smiling lots and occasionally touching him.
Sebastian is such a charmer. Whike Connor smiles more, and they are wide, he smiles everywhere and not so much at people. So much so that we were worried about his sight for a while. But Sebastian stares right in your eye, so you feel like you are his world. It's pretty gorgeous, and it makes me very tolerant.
Any way, unrelated to this, Sebbie has been diagnosed with a hernia and needs an op. Its retractable now but needs to be sorted so it doesn't harm his teste5 long term.
The surgeon was late and Sebbie was grumpy. But when he saw her he smiled. She wanted to get him to strain so that the hernia would pop out, and tried to make him cry. He wouldn't! She striped him naked. Nothing. She tapped on his tummy. Nothing. She dangled him in the air. He smiled. She even resorted to dripping cold water on his tummy.
Earl and I laughed and laughed. Our contrary boy.
Earl said "he's got three people staring at him; of course he's happy. An extravert, just like his Mum! "
Sebastian is just like me as a baby. And while ot may be payback for my own contrary childhood, there is part of me that just loves the fact.