At the moment I'm in waiting mode. It feels like life is on hold.
And it does feel like I just want time to slip by as quickly as it can.
But yesterday as I caught up with friends, I was reminded that this was wrong.
My friends were driving, with there three older kids at home and their one month old in the back, when a car rammed into their side. The car rolled twice, and they had to be cut out. They miraculously came away with only minor injuries, but as I sat in hospital speaking to them, there amazingly unhurt little boy in my arms, I thought, make every minute count. You just don't know when you or the one you love will be taken away.
Dont waste a day.