I could tell you about my holiday (which was good), I could tell you about all the unhelpful comments and pregnancy annoucements that accompanied it (which was bad).
But to be honest, the main thing on my heart at the moment is Sometimes, who has lost her baby. I am in complete shock, and so very, very sorry. It is the most terrible thing. And while every loss is different and none of us can totally know what each other are feeling, because she found out the same way I found out about Thumper (at what should have been a routine ultra sound at 9 weeks), I keep remembering what it was like, how hard and horrible, and I ache for her. I am so, so, so sorry friend. I wish there was something I could do :"(.
I'm sure any love or comments for her would be appreciated at this time.